Individual Paradigm vs Relational Paradigm - Where do you fall?

So back to the exploration of the difference between the Individual Paradigm and the Relational Paradigm.

Is the locus of control in the individual who pursues healing and growth through insights as they are relevant to his or her world? Or are those experiences of growth and healing more readily available in the interaction between two people – in the space between?

I like what Dr. Dan Siegel has to say about this:

‘And as a ‘we’ is woven into the neurons of our mirroring brains, even our sense of self is illuminated by the light of our connection.’